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False Employment

Posted by Kaleidoscope on July 17, 2008

Author: Hadija Copyright © 2008
Location: Kuwait

What is a maid or a nanny? What are their job requirements? They are individuals hired to perform certain duties, such as, house cleaning, washing and ironing, cooking, vacuuming, and child care. Each one is hired for a certain job. Well, that is the way it should be!

Do you know that many of these maids and nannies are brought to Kuwait on false pretenses? They are told that they will be working in hospitals, restaurants, salons, schools and other places, but when they arrive to Kuwait, they are employed as nannies or house maids.

They are not qualified for these jobs. They, usually, lack experience and many have never operated a washer, dryer, microwave, gas stove, iron, or any electrical appliance, or cared for children. Yet, they are forced to learn these tasks in a very short time. This is very stressful for a person who has little or no experience in this field of work, and one who has no interest in doing this type of job.

Whenever I read an article about a maid harming a child or children, harming herself, or being harmed by her employer, I ask myself who is at fault. Does the blame fall on the employer, the maids, or the governments of each country? I have spoken to many maids and nannies over the years, and found that a great number of them have so many regrets. They feel ashamed of their government, and they feel abandoned. Some feel that they have to make many mistakes, so that the employer will send them back to the labor office, and others are so stressed out that they usually take more drastic measures.

Does this sound wrong to you? Should people have to live like this? These women have rights. They have families waiting for them in their country. They have fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, husbands, and children who depend on them. They come here to earn a little money to send to their families so that their children can get an education. They send money home to take care of their fathers and mothers.

In Islam, we should be kind, generous, and treat people the way we would like to be treated. If an individual is hired for a certain job, and brought to Kuwait to work, they should work in the field in which they are trained. And, we should keep in mind that these individuals are human, too. Regardless of the work they are hired to do, they need rest, food and plenty of sleep so that they can perform their jobs well. They need training before coming to this country to be employed as a maid or nanny. Their rights should be secured, before they leave their country. And, if they are hired to work in a hospital, school, or restaurant, then, that is what they should be doing, as long as they have the qualifications.

Take a moment and think about this: What if your child or other family members had to work in another country? How would you want the people in that country to treat them? It’s been said, “What goes around, comes around.” So, think about it! Are you being fair to your employees?

Treat others the way you would like to be treated. May Allah show us guidance each and everyday.

4 Responses to “False Employment”

  1. Adel said

    Very well said. All human beings have rights & should be treated with dignity.

  2. Anonymous said

    I love this post. My blame lies in the government of the maids and their families. Their government sells their citizens for money because its their best export…and families send their mother,daughters, sisters, even sons so that they can have money. I try my very best to follow the prophets teachings because he eats from the same plate as his servant (anas bin malik).

  3. jewaira said

    I think it’s time an unbiased, comprehensive study is made in Kuwait specifically to understand the situation of domestic helpers: their backgrounds, their ambitions, the shortcomings and problems faced as well as the positive side to employment in Kuwait.

    We need to understand the problem before applying haphazard solutions that are difficult to implement.

  4. justpassingthrough said

    Hadija, what I’ve always liked about your posts is that they’re simply a direct hit of the hammer on the nail. This is one subject close to my heart, and I want you to take heart because in this dark sea of ignorance and abuse there does exist a legally sanctioned organization called The Kuwait Social Work Society http://www.q8sws.com/

    Please please, anyone who reads this or sees a victim that is not protected by our current laws you can contact q8sws (contact info found on provided link). It is a human rights organization founded and run in obscurity by a small group of people that I perceive as modern angels.

    Remember these names: Bibi Nasser al-Sabah, Faisal Al-Massoud. The Kuwait Social Work Society.

    Know of a housekeeper rotting in jail after being raped or pushed out the 2nd floor window by her sponsor? Any domestic or other laborer who is suffering and has caught your attention? contact them PLEASE. They really do help these men/women. Ive asked before and they’ve answered. They make a difference for the mesaakeen and so can you. They are the people behind the minute changes you have seen over the last few years on minimum wage and any development on the bedoon rights, etc.

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